Is it difficult to overcome the hardships? or how to overcome difficulties in Life:
problems, these are very common in life. I am sure that Everyone of us had gone through struggles and hardships in their lives at some point. Problem is nothing but the outcome of work what you ‘r expecting is different than the actual result and the situation which happened in your life is not favorable to you. It’s quite normal that most of us feel stressed and depressed immediately When the results are against to us. The stress and depression vary from person to person depending on their stability of mind. The stability of mind can be measured by, how long they can carry the stress? The way how they react to the situation? How soon they come out from pain? How are the emotions controlled? How good can they analyze the situation? How smooth can they hold the situation?
If we observe
and analyze the problem's, none of the problems will stay with us for our
entire life. Some problems are just like passing clouds, some will shake our
life for some time and will be moved out, very few problems will stay longer
period and again it depends on individual’s ability how soon they can handle
and solve those. As per my understanding and analyzation, Problems are nowhere
created it’s all in our minds. The way we think about a problem is the real
problem rather than the outcome of an issue. Some people keep on thinking on
the wrong side and will carry the negative emotions for a while, on the other
side there are some people who can immediately come out of that negative
emotion, what makes the difference between both its just stability of Mind and thoughts.
Just remember, nothing is neither good or bad but thinking makes difference.
problems are
nothing but great lessons in life, which will guide us on what to do and not do
in future. When we re-think the issue, which happened in our life, the way we
reacted to that issue seems to be silly now. It’s because, we learned some
lessons on the way to solve that issue, if it repeats we know how to solve that
without the tremble. The problem with some people is that they keep on thinking
about the issue rather than a solution, when they keep on thinking and discussing
the problem they never find a solution and will be more struggled and
depressed. We all need to question our self when the problem occurs, how to
solve the problem? what are the different ways to solve the problem? whose help
is required to solve the problem? how soon can the problem be solved? If you
ask these questions with in yourself, you will come to know the clear picture
of the issue and the solution.
how
to solve the problem?
This is the
first question which needs to come in our mind, how? To get an answer to this
question, you must understand what exactly the problem and the root cause of
that. Once you know the cause, you will come to know in and out of that problem
and the ways to solve that issue.
what
are the ways to solve the problem?
Once you know
the cause and solution start thinking about the ways to implement that
solution.
whose
help is required to solve the problem?
while you’re
working on the solution you may need help from someone to solve the issue. Find
out the suitable person who can help you to solve the problem which occurred
and Talk to them and seek help from them.
how
soon can the problem be solved?
Once you know
the cause and solution you can estimate the time approximately to implement the
solution.
some are really
panic, worried and some are calm, pleasant while Dealing with the same kind of
issue, why? It’s because of mindset and the way they control emotions. The
problem which we are struggling may not be the problem for others. Remember,
bad things do happen how we respond to them define our character and the
quality of life. We can choose to sit in sad by the loss or Can choose to rise
from pain.
Some of best
Quotes as below:
The Blog is mainly for the purpose of to Motivate and Inspire people in a way to Achieve There Dreams and To be More Success,Healthy and Wealthy by Improving there Thoughts.A Beautiful life begins with a Beautiful Mind.Beautiful Mind will be achieved by Reading Good Books,Connecting with Good People and By taking charge of Good Thoughts.please Help to share your Good Thoughts and Ideas if any!That will help to some one in some where..Thanks All for Visiting My Blog!!!!Anil Avula