Thursday, August 10, 2017

It's waste of time to Argue with someone who believes there lies strongly

It's waste of time to Argue with someone who believes there lies strongly.



I am thinking how to start the Discussion which I mentioned above!!!!In our life’s, we meet so many people by knowingly or unknowingly will continue our relationships with some only from them as according to their Mind sets and the thoughts which were Sync to us. As an individual, everyone has their own opinions and thought's which were created by the Surroundings where they have grown and the influence of people surrounded by them while they were growing like Friends who they meet, Teachers who they guide in school in the child hood and and from Parents, Mostly from MOTHER.


As I said MOTHER, I have a concrete Reason for that. As In my opinion, Mother is the first and foremost best teacher and friend for any child. The initial thoughts, ideas and the behavior of child which will inherit from Mother only. So, Mother is the Key for any child's success or failure. The reason is so simple. It’s because, once after the child born, the child Spent Most of the time with Mother until they grow Up. The child Will start noticing and observe the behavior of mother and tried to imitate the same in real world. This is the first step of a Child in Behaviors of the thoughts and the Opinions are formed firmly from the child hood onwards, there are some opinions which forms and changes as per Experience. Here, I am not going to talk about the Position\Designation ones achieved, I am just talking about the Behavior’s and the way of thinking. There are some people who will be in Higher ranking position's but there attitudes and behavior are faulty. There are some people who do a Small jobs But there behaviors are at most the best, kind and helpful to others.
There are some people who surrounded by us will always want to let down, criticize and abuse others without any reason. They shatter for small and silly mistakes and shout and scream on others. They always argue with someone without any reason. As I understood, There are so many reasons for this kind of behavior and some as like below.


  • Unhealthy Relation Ships with their close ones
  • Lack of Thinking in a Good way
  • Always in a mood of negativity
  • Lack of trust and self confidence
  • Fear to Face any Bad situation
  • No control on Mind and Emotions
There are some people in the world that they know, what they are talking and doing is wrong Though they Argue and tried to prove as its correct. They always want to do a Blame game and enjoy the other's pain. It’s easy to discuss and Explain about something who wants to know really and understand. How can it be convinced by A person who believes there lies strongly and stick on it. No one can change their Mind sets until and unless they got realized. This can be changed themselves by thinking in a right way. The first and most is start noticing the thoughts when you get angry and Think Why you’re getting angry? Think twice about the cause and the argument what you made to support you. If that argument is really reasonable then speak or else keep silent. As we all know silence is Gold and Speech is Silver. Silence is the best Medicine for any disrupted Argument between the Persons who want to continue their relations. At the point when one is shouting, It’s good to be calm and listen instead of giving counter to that argument. This way Most of the arguments will be stopped and finally, It’s waste of time to Argue with someone who believes there lies strongly.




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